There are those who like to say that they do legitimate work in the world, and those who actually do. ...Which one are you? (Which do you think we've been dealing with a lot here at RWN this week??)
Carrying on the illusion of doing that work takes such a lot of time & energy... Why not simply get down in the dirt and actually make a difference in the first place??
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As we often say in our speeches at our LGBT Wedding Expos throughout the nation, if more facets of the community simply connected and worked together with a team-oriented perspective, sincerely mindful of the ultimate goals rather than the glory or the bragging rights or even sometimes the paycheck... our minority would have achieved full marriage & family rights by now.