I’m Kiki, the officiant behind SPARK Ceremonies. SPARK isn’t just a name — it’s how I approach ceremony. It stands for Secular, Proud Ally, Animal-Inclusive, Rebel (non-traditional), and Kindred Storytelling. At its core, that means room for the beings who matter most to you — whether your family has two legs, four legs, no legs, or wings — and a ceremony that tells your story with warmth, humor, and intention. I welcome and affirm couples of all genders, sexual orientations, identities, bodies, family structures, and backgrounds. My work is rooted in respect, consent, and intentional language — so you never have to translate yourself or defend your choices. My job is to help you create a ceremony that feels intentional, personal, and unmistakably yours. I’m not for everyone — and that’s a feature, not a flaw. I’m here for couples who take marrying their best friend seriously, and who see the ceremony as more than just twenty minutes to get through before the music starts and the drinks are poured. If this has you nodding along, we’re likely a great match. I’d love to hear what kind of ceremony you’re imagining!
