Musical Choices to Elevate Your Wedding Day

Musical Choices to Elevate Your Wedding Day

From aisle moments to last call, here are some fresh ways to strike a chord with your soundtrack!

Music has the power to set the mood, spark emotion, and turn moments into lifelong memories. While traditional wedding music can be beautiful, meaningful and tug our heartstrings with a beat of nostalgia, there's also a special joy in opting to personalize your playlists with unique musical choices that reflect your own story and style.

Whether you're planning a grand celebration or an intimate gathering, here are some quick-read ideas for incorporating distinctive musical elements throughout your wedding day:

🎶 1. Rethink the Processional
Why stick to “Canon in D” when you can walk down the aisle to an instrumental cover of your favorite rock ballad or movie theme?

Ideas: Acoustic version of “Can’t Help Falling in Love,” a string quartet playing “Sweet Child O’ Mine,” or a soulful cover of “Halo” by Beyoncé.

For LGBTQ+ weddings, consider empowering anthems like “Rise Up” by Andra Day or “This Is Me” from The Greatest Showman—songs that reflect authenticity and pride.

🎧 2. Ceremony Soundtrack Surprises
Add a personal touch with live performances from talented friends or a surprise performance from a local artist.

Pro tip: Have a family member read lyrics to a meaningful song instead of a traditional reading, or invite a drag star or cultural performer to deliver a showstopping musical interlude.

🎵 3. Themed Cocktail Hour
Let your cocktail hour transport guests. Choose a musical theme that reflects your personalities or your shared adventures.

Themes:

“Vintage Vinyl” with Motown, disco, and ‘70s funk

“Festival Vibes” featuring indie folk and acoustic jams

“International Love” with global tracks celebrating your cultures or travels

🪗 4. Unique Reception Entrances
Skip the standard DJ announcement and burst into your reception with flair.

Enter to a live brass band or New Orleans-style second line

Have the DJ mash up your favorite songs into a high-energy montage

Use music from your favorite film, Broadway hit, video game, TV show, or even a viral TikTok sound that’s become your inside joke

🎤 5. Crowd-Pleasing Dinner Sets
Instead of background jazz, curate a playlist that sparks nostalgia and conversation.

Playlist Inspiration:  Childhood favorites / Songs from your first concerts / TV show theme songs remixed for string instruments / Broadway favorites!

🎚️ 6. Alternative First Dance Songs
There’s no rule that says your first dance has to be slow. Make it reflect the two of you!

Upbeat: “You Make My Dreams” by Hall & Oates

Modern Love: “Lover” (First Dance Remix) by Taylor Swift

Indie Romance: “Sea of Love” by Cat Power

Campy Fun: “Simply the Best” (Schitt’s Creek version)

🕺 7. End-of-Night Encore
Ditch the overplayed last dance songs and end your night with a bang:

Options: A group singalong like “Bohemian Rhapsody,” a surprise silent disco, or a private last dance to your secret couple song once guests have cleared out.

🌈 Bonus Tip for LGBTQ+ Weddings
Infuse your wedding with queer joy by spotlighting LGBTQ+ artists throughout your playlist—think Troye Sivan, Brandi Carlile, Janelle Monáe, Sam Smith, and Kim Petras. This not only uplifts representation but ensures your soundtrack is as vibrant and inclusive as your love story.

Final Note:
Music is the emotional backbone of your wedding day—why not make it as unique and personal as your relationship? From ceremony to send-off, embrace the unexpected and let your love story S-I-N-G!

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